Haiku About Loss and Grief
In the strongest haiku about loss and grief, the speaker talks to the person who is gone. Dan J. Kirk writes SIT WITH ME AGAIN
, then promises that the grave will open in time and asks to GIVE A MOMENT BACK
. The three lines are a request, a prediction and a plea, none of them answered, and the poem stops where an answer would have to begin.
Elias Red writes about a life that did not begin: SPRING RAIN. DEAD AT FIRST BREATH.
The poem then says that the speaker still mourns THE DAYS HE DID NOT SEE
. Grief for the unlived is hard to describe, and the poem does it by counting days that never happened.
Other poets let objects hold the loss. In Glenn Halak’s poem the midwife has gone, MARS GLEAMED ON SCOURED TILES
, and an EMPTY BIRD CAGE
is SWAYING AT AN OPEN WINDOW
. Sherry Steiner writes about a search through ALLEYWAYS
and a heaven that DOZED OFF SILENTLY
, while VELVET COLLARS WEPT
. Nobody explains what is missing, and the missing thing is the loudest part.
Strangers in grief
Brian Gillikin sets a poem in a foreign hospital, HOSPITAL. ITALY.
, where there are ESPRESSO DREGS AND TEARS
. The speaker is a tourist in a room of sorrow, and the dregs of coffee are an odd detail that the reader will not forget.
Small comforts
Susan Gentry chooses an image that offers a little: MOONLIGHT ACROSS LAKE
gives a reflection of memories, and TWINKLING STARS COMFORT
. It does not say the grief is eased. It says that comfort is available, and the stars twinkle.
43 poems
SIT WITH ME AGAINYOUR GRAVE WILL OPEN IN TIMEGIVE A MOMENT BACK
Issue #15, page 41
GRIEF
MOONLIGHT ACROSS LAKEREFLECTION OF MEMORIESTWINKLING STARS COMFORT
Issue #8, page 61
SPRING RAIN. DEAD AT FIRSTBREATH. STILL, I MOURN HIS LIFE, THEDAYS HE DID NOT SEE.
Issue #3, page 37
VELVET
SEARCHING ALLEYWAYSHEAVEN DOZED OFF SILENTLYVELVET COLLARS WEPT
Issue #2, page 51
A MOMENT WITH A BROKEN TOURIST
HOSPITAL. ITALY.ESPRESSO DREGS AND TEARS ASNEARBY HER KNELL TOLLS.
Issue #3, page 35
THE MIDWIFE LEFT BEFORE DAWNMARS GLEAMED ON SCOURED TILES –EMPTY BIRD CAGE SWAYING AT AN OPEN WINDOW;
Issue #3, page 61
HOW TO FILL THE SPACES THAT YOU LEFT BEHIND
NOW THAT YOU ARE GONETHE WORDS HAVEN'T STOPPED COMING.THE SILENCE STILL HURTS.
Issue #11, page 61
WORK ETHIC―I PASS MY FATHER’S GRAVEAGAIN
Issue #3, page 45
SWEATERS IN FLORIDA
MY MOTHER KNITTEDCOLORFUL ELABORATE DESIGNS—NOW FADED, UNWORN
Issue #4, page 19
QUIET HOUSE -DEAD BATTERIESDEAD MANTLE CLOCK
Issue #6, page 105
THE LONGEST TRAIL
THE FINALITYIS SOMETIMES MARKED BY JUST ONETRACK OF A SPENT TEAR
Issue #5, page 29
ANNIVERSARY
ANNIVERSARY VISIT—HIS WHITE HEADSTONEIN FRESH SNOW
Issue #14, page 53
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THESE TINY FLOWERSUNKNOWN TO ME…IF ONLYYOU WERE HERE TO SAY.
Issue #2, page 109
MISSING PARTS OF MELIVE IN THE ABSENCE OF LEAVESBLOWING DOWN THE STREET
Issue #4, page 55
CANDLELIT FACES;GHOSTS TREADING THROUGH MUDDYDREAMS OF ANOTHER LIFE
Issue #6, page 37
HIGHWAY BUS –RAIN DAPPLING WINDOWSOBSCURING TEARS
Issue #6, page 51
SABOTAGE
CRISP SHADOWS UNTOLDLUCENT SHARDS OF BROKEN GLASSGHOSTS SIPHONING DREAMS
Issue #7, page 55
AGAIN AN AUNTAGAIN A MOURNER -SUCH PERFECT FINGERS
Issue #7, page 107
A CHANGEABLE WINDBENDING THE BARLEYHER DRYING TEARS
Issue #8, page 51
YARD VERSE #1
HOPELESS FEATHERWEIGHTSOFT BIRD, QUIET IN MY HANDA TINY STILL HEART
Issue #9, page 45
KINDNESS
KINDNESS LOSTREMEMBERSHALLOW GRAVE
Issue #10, page 33
MOURNING HAIKU
BUSHES BLOOM ANEWBUTTERFLIES APPEAR BUT SOMEBLACK MEN WILL STAY DEAD
Issue #10, page 37
TEARDROPS
YOUR LIPS QUIVERINGAS TEAR DROPS SILENTLY FALLIN THE SALTY SEA
Issue #10, page 59
OUTLINING DUSTON MY GRANDFATHER'S URNTHE PETRIFIED MOTH
Issue #10, page 87
SLATTER PARK CHANGEDFOREVER THE DAY THEY FOUNDTHE MISSING BLACK SWAN
Issue #11, page 17
TIDES
LONE SEAGULLFOLLOWS THE RECEDING TIDE‒WIDOW’S WALK
Issue #11, page 41
CONDUCTOR OF WARMTH.WINTER RAIN, TEARS ABSORBER.ONE-EYED TEDDY BEAR.
Issue #11, page 63
SNOWDROPS
SNOW ON EYELASHES--FROZEN BLUE FORGET-ME-NOTSMELT TO TEARS, STREAMING.
Issue #11, page 65
THE SOUNDS OF SUMMER
ABANDONED PLAYGROUNDSTHE SIDEWALKS LIE DESERTED.WHERE ARE THE CHILDREN?
Issue #12, page 33
FROM AN EMPTY CHAIR
MEMORIES OF YOUOF ME THEN, OF US FOREVER.ON THOSE GRAPHED PAGES, IN THAT BED.
Issue #12, page 43
CLOUD HALL READING GARDEN
THE WOUNDED BIG TREEPRESIDES AND PREVAILS OVERSTONE RIVER MINIONSFINALLY, THE RAINTHEN THE GREEN MOSS AND MARROWEATEN LIKE A SEEDTHE SORROW SHOOTS UPTHE CRACKED AND THIRSTY SOILRELIVES ITS LONG LOSSWITH OLD BITTER TEARSNOW WASHED AND SCENTED WITH SAGEA PURPLE HERE, THERE
Issue #13, page 33
FROSTED WINGS
A WINTER CHILL BLOWSUPON THE BARREN LANDSCAPESHIELDED BY A HANDTHE FACE OF AN ANGEL STRIPPEDBY THE FREEZING TOUCH OF LOSS
Issue #13, page 41
DECAY
THE LEAVES HAVE DIED. BRIGHTAS TEARS, THEY ESCAPE ONTHE STREAM’S CURRENT ASSWIFTLY AS THEY FIRST UNFURLEDIN SPRING, WHEN YOU WERE HERE.
Issue #13, page 45
RETURNING FROM WAR
RETURNING FROM WAR…THROUGH THE STORMNOT JUST THE WILLOWS WEEP
Issue #14, page 33
RECALL WHITE FEATHERS
RECALL WHITE FEATHERSBLOWN AGAINST BROKEN WINDOWSAT SUNSET, DEAD SWAN
Issue #14, page 48
A BROKEN VESSEL
A BROKEN VESSELVERY SAME VOID AS BEFORENOW UNFILLABLE
Issue #14, page 49
BONE FOREST
THE BIRDS MOURN THEIR LOSS,DARTING THROUGH A BONE FOREST,COLORS AMONG DEATH.
Issue #14, page 56
HAIKU FOR THE END OF SPRING
PETALS GLIDE TO EARTHLIKE WINGS WITHOUT A SWALLOWSHADOW AT SUNSET
Issue #15, page 42
HANDS TRACE NAMES OF DEAD,WITNESSES TO INFAMY --PEARL HARBOR IN FLAMES.
Issue #15, page 49
THE PILOT (GRANDPA)
TIN WINGS, CLOUD-FILLED DREAMS.NAVIGATING OVER, THROUGH…FOUND NOW IN BLUE SKIES.
Issue #15, page 57
NIGHT STORMS
UNDER THE SAME RAINYOUR HEART STILL BEATS IN MY EARYET SILENCE PREVAILS.
Issue #17, page 14
A SOMBER MOURNING
BABY SEAL PASSES,LAST BREATH STARING AT MOUNTAINS,SOMBER WAVES MOURNING.
Issue #17, page 16
IN DEFERENCE TO OUR MOTHER
AUTUMN’S DAYS DWINDLE.TREES ABLAZE IN EULOGY.BARE, THEIR MOURNING CLOTHES.
Issue #18, page 36
Questions readers ask
Should I read the grief page or the death page?
The grief page stays close to the one who is left, with direct address and the objects in the room. The death page looks at mortality as a subject, from a passing hearse to a bird held still in the hand.
Is it all right to read these when the loss is recent?
Yes, if it helps. Short poems about loss can be easier to hold than long ones. If the grief feels too heavy to carry alone, a bereavement counselor or a local hospice can help, and the poems are no substitute for that.
Do the poems offer comfort or only company?
Mostly company. Gentry’s stars come the closest to comfort, and even there the word is twinkling.
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Last reviewed November 2026. Poems are the work of the poets credited and link to their pages in the original issues.